Davis Mac-Iyalla reports on the London Forum on ongoing Constitutional Reform in Nigeria

Davis Mac-Iyalla, founder of Changing Attitude Nigeria, attended The London Forum on ongoing Constitutional Reform in Nigeria at the London Metropolitan University on Saturday 15 December 2012.

The guest speakers were Hon. Mulikat Akande-Adeola, House Leader, member of Constitutional review committee and Hon. Betty Apiafi, Deputy Chair, House Committee on Diaspora Affairs.

As soon the both lawmakers walked in they politely greeted the few of us who had arrived early and took seats to form a circle so they can chat with us before the event started. I was impressed and felt relaxed. Honourable Betty attended with her two children who are schooling in the UK. I asked her if they are part of her official entourage. She smiled and said since they are students in the UK, she wanted them to attend like every Nigerian student in the UK. That impressed me because it meant that her children would be able to hear what I planned to say and would see how their mother responded.

Knowing that my contribution in the debate might be controversial and not sure how they will react to me after I had spoken I asked both parliamentarians if I could take photos with them. They happily obliged.

http://changingattitude.org.uk/wp-content/uploads/2012/12/011-Davis-and-Senators-300x224.jpg 300w" sizes="(max-width: 448px) 100vw, 448px" /> Davis Mac-Iyalla centre, Hon.Mulikat O. Akande-Adeola, House Leader, member of Constitution Review Committee on his right and Hon. Betty Apiafi, Deputy Chair, House Committee on Diaspora Affairs on his left

At 3:00pm Olalekan Oshunkoya, president and UK convenor of Conversation for New Nigeria, opened the event by asking us to sing the Nigeria national anthem. He then officially introduced the speakers and gave his welcome speech.

Honourable Betty was first to talk about the House Committee on Diaspora Affairs. She explained what they do, why the committee was set up and what they hope to achieve as well as its challenges.

Next to address us was the House Leader Honourable Mulikat. She focused her speech on the constitution reform, what they have done so far and how those in the Diaspora can contribute.

When it was time for questions I raised my hand to ask the first question. I introduced myself and said that I am attending the forum wearing many hats. I am first and foremost a Nigerian, student, a human rights defender, gay and a public health advocate for black men, founder of Changing Attitude Nigeria, and a member LGBT Nigerians in the Diaspora Against Anti Same-Sex Marriage laws . By the time I finished introducing myself the expression of people’s faces had changed.

I asked the honourable ladies why it’s so important for them to pass the Nigeria anti same-sex marriage bill knowing full well that we have inherited a law from our colonial masters which criminalizes homosexuality. I talked of how the bill was first introduced to parliament in 2006 and was renewed in 2009 and 2011 when the Senate passed it and forwarded it to the House of Representatives where it has received two readings and might be passed to the president to be signed into law.

At this point the house become intense and I heard someone behind me saying please sit down. I could see the moderator at the table signalling that my time is up. I kept my calm knowing that I will never get another chance like this so continued. I asked if Nigerians have actually studied the bill and understand the implications if the bill if passed. I pointed out that the bill is infringing the fundamental human rights of LGBT Nigerians, rights to love and live freely in their country. I talked of how this will make the non-governmental organizations and individuals which work in the area of HIV/AIDS illegal and will prevent their services from reaching targets groups like homosexuals or MSM (men who have sex with men). I went further to talk of how this bill will criminalize religious ministers and groups like Changing Attitude Nigeria which gives pastoral and general support to LGBT people. Knowing that there were Moslems present I said even Imams will be banned from giving support to homosexual Moslems if the bill is passed. Again the tension in the room increased but I kept on talking about the relevant areas that makes this bill an abuse of the fundamental human rights of LGBT Nigerians. I was finally asked to sit down.

The next person to speak was a Moslem from Kebbi State. He pointed directly to me, said that homosexuality is wrong and that the bill needs to be passed. He received a loud round of applause from the audience.

The next person to speak said he is a Christian and that he is well informed that the bill will not affect doctors or those who offer health services to homosexuals. He also got a big round of applause while everyone looked at me as if I should not have been there.

Many more people wanted to speak on the same sex marriage bill but the speaker requested that she should address the issue so we can move to more important things. She addressed me directly saying that Nigeria must take a stand and pass this bill because homosexuality is a taboo, the Bible is against it, the Quran is against it, and it’s against our tradition and culture. She went on to say that what we already have is a penal code which says if you have carnal knowledge or anal sex with some of the same sex you will be punishable by 14 years in prison.

She said that is not enough because same sex-marriage is now taking place in countries like America and the UK, so if they don’t pass this Bill soon Nigerians will begin to demand that they want same sex marriage. She looked at me directly in the eye and said she personally had moved the bill in the House and that the bill will be passed and the President will sign it into law and there are no two ways about it because it’s what they want. She went on to say that America has been the reason for frustrating the Bill because they have been lobbying and putting pressure on the government not to pass the Bill. She said America has even given aid conditionally but the Nigerian law makers will make sure that no matter the pressure the Bill will be passed, period.

Honourable Betty spoke after her also addressing me directly and saying that they have done a good job around the Bill, looking at it clause by clause where it will affect innocent Nigerians and they will make sure it is amended before it comes out again. She then said to me if I so passionately that if I believe that the bill is wrong why didn’t I send a group or come in person to the public hearing which was open to all Nigerians to speak their mind. I was not given a chance to respond.

I wanted to remind her that LGBT Nigerians in Diaspora Against Anti Same Sex Laws were present at the hearing and that our position paper was the first to be read. I wanted to remind her how the representatives of the Nigeria LGBT Coalition were humiliated. I wanted to tell her that it’s they, the Nigeria law makers,that have not listened to the voices and contributions of LGBT Nigerians in the debate and public hearing. I didn’t have another chance to ask what has happened to all the statements and documents that have been submitted to Senate and House of Representatives by the Nigeria LGBT Coalition. I wanted to say loudly that Nigerian LGBT people at their own personal risk have been trying to come out publicly to air their voice against the Bill and that it’s clear to me that those voices have been ignored. She concluded her address to me saying it too late now – we will pass the bill.

Soon after that a gentleman sitting behind me was allowed to speak. He went on to say he is not gay, has never met any homosexuals in Nigeria and that the only Nigerian homosexual he knew only came out to him here in the UK where they had both come to study. He said he didn’t have a problem with homosexuals as long as they didn’t approach him with their homosexuality. He directly questioned both lawmakers why among many issues facing Nigeria they are spending time debating and trying to pass anti same-sex marriage laws? He challenged the law makers asking why are they not talking about paedophiles and the older men who are molesting young Nigerian girls. He mentioned a Nigerian senator who married a 13 year old, and asked why that is not a concern for the lawmakers rather than keep talking about the same-sex marriage bill which isn’t needed in Nigeria.

He was not applauded by the audience. Both of the law makers responded that they do understand the behaviour of some of their male colleagues and that they disprove of it, they said it was good that a man is the person actually pointing out this issue but they said young Nigerian girls also have to take responsibility. There was a lot of talk about this.

The meeting moved on to discuss questions about the constitutional reform. I had to attend another event so I left. The conversations for a New Nigeria have not recognised the rights of LGBT Nigerians in the Diaspora or those at home. I plan to continue to bring this topic up in every debate about reforms in Nigeria until they realise that LGBT rights are also human rights.

Davis Mac-Iyalla


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    The lawmakers are simply acting out a script as they are resolved before now to further divide Nigerians&deny LGBT rights in Nigeria. My only concern here is why LGBT organization in England did not mobilize enough people to this forum to engage the audience in their number game. I seriously commend the efforts&courage of Mac-Iyalla&strongly believe dt fundamental rights are never given on a platter of platinum by those who are denying it. The struggle must continue&d civilized constituency must unequivocally lead the reasonable&valid agitation…aluta continua…

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